A man's life would be perfect, when you get a wife like this. Maybe it's just too utopian Padangan only. However, Amir Hamzah, an insurance company's general manager, always trying to get it.
As a result, Amir Hamzah often gontaganti partner. Now she has two lovers. First, offspring) awa, worked as public relations coordinator at the electronics company. In her career is pretty good, but physically less pretty. His skin was black and his body a little mediocre, just not the type of Amir. The second girlfriend, female Sunda. Beautiful, smooth skin like a yam and a smart well dressed. But in a career and intellectual, mediocre, and just as regular employees.
Amir confused, which one should be selected, while age and continue to urge parents. He admitted that his girlfriend had both advantages and disadvantages of each. As a normal man, he wanted to have a beautiful wife. The problem is, beauty can not guarantee whether the woman would be a good life partner later.
Environment & NatureKnowledge has become for some people, that the woman Sunda cantikcantik. Beautiful natural scenery contributed to this, especially for smooth skin. But behind the beauty and the beauty of the woman Sunda, there are bad elements, that is lazy, the hobby of dressing up and posing as a rich man. Not only that, also believed by some, that in marriage, her husband Sunda always rely on income. Of course this is only a partial view of people. Because it does not mean all women Sunda like that.
Anthropologically, many factors that cause women to interact with the Sunda every man always rely on physical beauty. Rather than intellectual ability and strong personality as a woman of North Sumatra, Java and Bali, which is strong in life. The women of Java, Bali and North Sumatra, known as a tenacious woman. They do not pick and choose jobs, which is important halal. This can be seen at the terminals, markets, and fields.
According to Agus Wiyanto, Sundanese culture is a culture that has both high eroticism, which can be seen from the dance arts, like dance Jaipong. Jaipong thick with body sway, which highlight parts of a sexy body. Unlike the Javanese dances are more laden with symbols and meaning of life.
"Nature is fertile woman Sunda to lull asleep, so no need to work hard. Ensure continuity of nature is. their lives. Quite a husband who works in the field or fields, while the wife at home taking care of and caring for children, beautify yourself, serving her husband and cleaning the house, "said a member of the National Association of Scholars of Indonesia.
Agus added that the beauty and fertility of nature (and the beauty of women) in West Java is up to the region off the coast of West Java, Banten (before it became its own province), which includes the city of Paris in Java. Not much different from that at the time of VOC Bogor be the resting place of the Dutch nobility.
In fact in some areas of West Java, there are also women who are proud to be a widow. This is due to the assumption, that women are able to marry three or four times, meaning the woman is better than another woman who only mate once. "It happened in Karachi, the North Coast region and Indramayu," said Agus.
When social conditions such as this is allowed, of course, will affect the next generation. Indirectly they will do what previous generations had done. As a result, people's views on women Sunda could get worse.
Unlike the Javanese woman who suggested hardworking. For them, work is an honor. Although the results are better off working a small, rather than selling yourself but not kosher. Agus explained, female weakness of Java is not mempuyai mature ambitions and plans. As a result, they are always marginal, became domestic servants, market traders in vegetables, and herbs perjual. This is due to low education and development create the mindset of living is low.
IISIP professor adds, there is also a view among parents who say, that there is no point in her school to college. The reason, women keep going back to the kitchen to take care of and caring for children and serving her husband. This mindset can only be removed through education and awareness of the facts. That in the global era now, which is required of any woman (not just women Sunda) - not just physical beauty - but also the intellectual ability and willingness to work high.
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